In honor of Mother’s Day, I’d like to thank my two beautiful girls for the privilege of being their mom everyday. Next, I’d like to recognize the other members of the joint Yost Family caregiving task force: my wonderful husband and my fantastic babysitter who has been a member of our family for 10 years.
Now, to all of my sisters out there. The amazing women I meet everyday who heroically fit all of the parts of their busy work and lives together, I’m giving you the same three gifts that I’m bestowing upon myself this year–Recognition, A Break and Men (not what you think):
Recognition That You Are Amazing
Ladies, we must do a better job giving ourselves credit for all that we accomplish whatever our unique work+life fit looks like. At the end of the day, instead of focusing on all of the things I didn’t do, I’ve started a practice of congratulating myself on the things I’ve done–big and small. Join me! Tell me how it feels and what a difference it makes.
Here’s a very cool way from MomsRising.org to recognize the mothers you love while advancing the cause of pay equity. Click here to customize the “The Amazing Story of…” video. Unbelievably creative. I still can’t figure out how they do it. ( For more, check out the MomsRising Mother’s Day Blog Carnival)
Permission Not to Be Perfect (a.k.a Giving Yourself a Break)
In case you missed it, I recently made a confession in the “Secret Life of a Work/Life Expert” blog post for Good Enough is the New Perfect: I only get my work+life fit right about 70% of the time. The other 30% I’m trying to hold it together like everyone else. And that’s okay!!! This year I want all moms to give ourselves (and each other) a break because remember the first gift…you are amazing!
Inviting Men Into the Work+Life Fit Conversation
Finally, this year I want every mom to reach out, grab the willing men in her life…and invite them to become part of the work+life fit conversation. As my recent interview with Dan Mulhern in Fast Company proves, men are starting to join us. But we need to welcome them with open arms because for too long the dialogue has only included women. If we partner with men to create the new flexible ways we all need to manage our work and life, we’ll make progress a lot faster. I know I’m ready, and I’ll bet every other woman is ready for progress too.
Happy Mother’s Day! What are the top work+life fit gifts you hope moms receive this year?